this was my response to Brandon's first post..... just wanted to have it here, for my thoughts, don't wan to publish it
Randi :) said...
Forgiveness is sometimes so hard. But who am I not to forgive? I know you learned your lesson and I know you will ALWAYS be EXTRA careful from now on with our boy. I really don't think that God intended for this to happen.... but He can turn anything around for the good, so I'm glad you are able to find something good come out of all this. I wish it never happened. I wish that I could comfort Raymond better... but if it takes an accident like this to make it happen - I say NO thank you!! But since the beginning, you've always been the comforter. You are the one that's most peaceful and calm, I'm the one who handles the details. I am the one who gets things done and takes care of things. Maybe someday I can have a little girl that will be a calmer personality and will be comforted by her mommie. Raymond went through his independent stage soo early and doesdn't want to be mommy's little baby. He is bonded so well with you. Maybe if we ever have a 2nd baby, you can be good at the details too and not just the comforting. Parenting sure is the toughest job ever huh? At least when you do it right.....Love you and I'm proud of what a great father you are. I just wish we could all be together more as a family.
Forgiveness is sometimes so hard. But who am I not to forgive? I know you learned your lesson and I know you will ALWAYS be EXTRA careful from now on with our boy. I really don't think that God intended for this to happen.... but He can turn anything around for the good, so I'm glad you are able to find something good come out of all this. I wish it never happened. I wish that I could comfort Raymond better... but if it takes an accident like this to make it happen - I say NO thank you!! But since the beginning, you've always been the comforter. You are the one that's most peaceful and calm, I'm the one who handles the details. I am the one who gets things done and takes care of things. Maybe someday I can have a little girl that will be a calmer personality and will be comforted by her mommie. Raymond went through his independent stage soo early and doesdn't want to be mommy's little baby. He is bonded so well with you. Maybe if we ever have a 2nd baby, you can be good at the details too and not just the comforting. Parenting sure is the toughest job ever huh? At least when you do it right.....Love you and I'm proud of what a great father you are. I just wish we could all be together more as a family.
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