an addition to my last post!

At work tonight, I kept thinking about my previous post. I wanted to be clear that just because I didn't like the qualities of people in my past and those qualities made me respond to their advances with an "I like you but let's be friends" --- it doesn't mean they are necessarily bad qualities or bad people! We ALL have weaknesses, Brandon included (!) but I believe in looking for a spouse we have a predetermined set of qualities we do / do not want! So those qualities were just the ones that came to the my head right away of qualities he had that I loved and didn't have that I was glad he didn't!

But the same qualities that I don't like, a different woman might LOVE and seek and they might be perfect for her!!! Or qualities that I REALLY don't want in a husband, another girl could really not care about at all!



Isn't that awesome to think about? That each marriage was uniquely designed by God - and we fit together just like 3 pieces in a puzzle. The reason I said 'no' to people in the past was because there was something about their piece that just didn't fit right. That's such a cool visual. The person whose puzzle just didn't fit with me, is probably an AWESOME person and his qualities will be PERFECT for his spouse ---- but they just aren't right for anybody else except the one God designed them for!!! I love that!!

I wish you all a wonderful day! and I hope your 2008 started off GREAT! :)